If you’re lucky enough to be in a relationship, whether that’s just starting out or already ten years into life together, then date night is likely a familiar concept. It’s time to spend intentionally together doing some form of activity or attending an event, but it doesn’t need to require lots of elaborate prep. A simple games night at home can be a great option to spend some quality time with one another, and this is how to bring one together.
Selecting the Perfect Game
As you might expect, a solid foundation for a games date night comes in the selection of a great game. One that will excite and engage you both for however long you want to be playing. Many board games cater to two players, like Scrabble and Chess, or something newer like Splendor Duel. There are also card games that can be fantastic for couples who like to get competitive, as well as games using a standard deck of cards.
Don’t overlook digital entertainment options either, bringing your mobile or games console into the mix. Online games can be great if you’re currently spending time apart, jumping into something together virtually, or there are many couch co-op video games available to play together. Alternatively, you can take on a single-player experience together, from something as complex as Dark Souls to playing the Deal or No Deal free game by taking turns picking boxes.
The main thing is to consider your joint preferences and find something with overlap, then think whether a cooperative or competitive game will work better for the atmosphere you want to create.
Creating a Cosy and Inviting Atmosphere
Next is thinking about the space for the evening, creating the ideal ambiance for a date night in your very own home. Picking a comfortable spot where you can both relax, while still being within easy reach of your game of choice, will help you both get into the right mood.
Soft lighting creates warmth, so consider dimming overhead lights and using table lamps or candles instead. Background music can enhance the mood without becoming distracting, so find something that matches the tone of the game you’re playing – or fall back on a playlist that you’ve potentially crafted together.
Food, Drinks and Strategic Breaks
An important aspect to consider that pairs with your gaming date – snacks. You’ll want to select some food that’s easy to manage while playing, like finger foods and pre-prepared snacks that you can dip into on the fly. Or, consider a takeaway for maximum ease that allows you to focus mainly on having fun together.
Keep beverages within easy reach – but not too close if you’re playing a board or card game. Nothing ruins the vibe more than a spilled drink. Whether it’s tea, wine, or soft drinks, having refreshments readily available maintains the relaxed atmosphere you’ve created.
Make sure to take small breaks during the game to keep each other topped up with food and drink, giving you little intervals to recharge and enjoy the date organically.
Adding a little planning behind your game night can show your date how thoughtful you are, helping to enhance the overall experience and sentiment, hopefully crafting an evening of laughter and connection.
